That's US! It is you and it is me. Being sexually supportive does not mean that you have to play an active part in other people sex lives. You don't have participate in their fetish. But it means that you understand that all human beings have different sexual triggers, and that unless those triggers involve children or the non-consenting, THAT IT IS OKAY TO WANT WHAT YOU WANT. IT IS OKAY FOR OTHER PEOPLE TO WANT WHAT THEY WANT, EVEN IF IT IS NOT WHAT YOU WANT.