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Fisting

SAFETY NOTICE

IMPORTANT: Blood means STOP. Always listen to your partner and keep in their comfort zone

The act of inserting an entire human hand into either the vagina or the anus.  While the subject of many jokes and misunderstanding, Fisting isn't the violent activity is sounds like.

anal fisting

Fisting can be a form of ANAL play, where one partner uses their hand and fist (hence the name fisting) to manipulate the anus of their partner. But outside of rough fantasy stories, fisting is usually an act that begins gently and feels very good for both partners.

The key to fisting is to start very slowly, very small, and use a LOT of lube. Take as much lube as you think you are going to need. Now add more.

Start by stroking the outer edges of the anus. Gently. This is best one with your partner on their hands and knees, unless there is a knee injury which prevents this.

As your partner begins to enjoy the sensations, you will sense that they relax. You will also see the pucker of the anus relax as well. It is very important to keep your partner relaxed- no sudden movements, nothing threatening or harsh. The "pucker factor" where we tense up everywhere (including anally), was aptly named.

As your partner relaxes, add lube to your gloved hand. If you are fluid boned with your partner, a glove isn't necessary. However, if you have cuts in your hand or a hangnail, you could risk a really nasty infection. Slide one finger gently over the opening of the sphincter.

Take your time. There is no rush.

As your partner grows more relaxed, insert the finger completely and begin to move it. Eventually you will be able to add another finger, so that you are pistoning two fingers in and out of your partner's anus.

If your partner is a male, two things may make this easier. One is to aim for the Prostate, which is a small "bump" about the size of a nickel inside the rectum. If your partner is on his knees and you have a finger inside, you can often find it by making a "come here" motion with your finger. The second thing which makes this pleasurable is to add penile stimulation, either as a vibrator on the cock or hand manipulation.

Female partners relax more quickly and often enjoy the experience more when there is a vibrator to their clitoris.

As your partner relaxes and gets into it, you can add more fingers until your entire hand is inside the anus and moving.


VAGINAL FISTING

Vaginal fisting is something that often brings partners together, since it helps a woman find her G-Spot. Using the same techniques as above, including the abundance of lube and taking it slowly- begin to slide your hand into your partner. With vaginal fisting, you will want to add clitoral stimulation to give your partner the most pleasure.