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Bondage

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SAFETY NOTICE

Bondage requires the use of common sense. NEVER leave someone alone and gagged. If you do not have experience with bondage, do your homework. You do NOT want to cut off circulation or asphyxiate your partner!

When someone is tied up or otherwise restrained for pleasure.

Thoughts from Milovana Users

The appeal of bondage can be both physical and visual. Bondage fundamentally creates a sense of helplessness. This is also sometimes combined with physical discomfort of even pain caused by the restraint itself, although bondage can also be designed to be comfortable. In this physical capacity, bondage is often combined with other assorted kinky activities, from sensual touching and kissing to infliction of physical pain.

Bondage can be done with a wide range of materials, although ropes, chains, the leather restraints are among the most common. More extreme forms of bondage include: mummification, where the whole body is wrapped; suspension bondage, where physical support is provided solely by the bondage ropes; and situation bondage, where the submissive is forced to chose (and alternate) between two uncomfortable or painful positions.

The visual aspect is also important to many practitioners. Japanese rope bondage, for example, is noted for its intricate attention to the asthetic of ropes on the human body.


Exploring Bondage

Contributed by Pagan Kinktress

There are really so many ways to explore bondage...the only limits are one's imagination. From cuffs to ropes, to duct tape to scarves, bondage in kinky play can add lovely elements and dimensions to submission.

This exploration was inspired by my own Pet. This was one of the first acts of surrender he performed for me, and what a sensational performer he is!

You will need:

Approximately 10 feet of rope, at least 1/8 inch thick

Nipple clamps, clothespins-your choice

A means for measuring time

You are going to bind up your cock and balls.

First you need to hold your cock out of the way and with the rope in hand, turn it once completely around the top of your scrotum to separate your balls from the base of your cock. You should have about two inches of rope hanging on one side of your balls.

Next, taking the long end of the rope, make three more turns around the top of your scrotum, forcing your balls into the bottom of your sack. Tie the two ends into a square knot underneath your balls. You should now have the longer piece of rope hanging.

Measure the amount of rope left hanging to what will be necessary to tie to a door or piece of heavy furniture. Cut any remaining slack.

With the remaining rope, fold in half. Place the half way point at the base of your cock and turn three more times around your cock. Run the ends of the rope under the middle loop on your cock in opposite directions and tie off in another square knot. Now run the two ends underneath your balls and tie off in yet another square knot. Now your cock and balls should appear joined together.

Once you have your cock and balls bound up, apply the nipple clamps or clothespins.

Gently pull the long length of the rope backwards between your legs so you are essentially pulling your cock and ball back and away. Now tie the rope to something sturdy that will not move, such as a door knob or a piece of furniture such as a table leg. Move away from the furniture until you feel a bearable tension.

Spread your legs wide, bending the knees slightly and put your head onto the floor. Lean forward, using your hands for balance if needed. Stay in this position for 10-15 minutes and contemplate what it feels like to be bound and on display in this way. What do you like about this position? What does it make you think about? What don't you like about this position or activity and why? After the time is up, you can release the ropes or loosen however is comfortable for you. Lie on your back and masturbate to orgasm.

Please keep in mind you not should keep your cock and balls bound up for more than 20 minutes, so as not to cut circulation. If at any point, something does not feel right to you, stop doing it! Your safety should always be a priority.

Check out: Practical Bondage Tips- http://public.diversity.org.uk/deviant/fsbdgprc.htm for more ideas and safety notes.


Resources

Extreme Restraints: http://www.extremerestraints.com/