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After an intense sexual experience AFTERCARE refers to the care you give either to yourself or your partner. It's not just for BDSM and submissives. There are many folks both men and women, who after an orgasm need comfort and/or replenishment. It's important that we take care of each other.

ways to care for your partner

HUGS:  Put your arms around your partner and give physical affection.
LISTEN:  Without reserve and without judgement.
GIVE SPACE: Sometimes after a scene, there is a need to explore the inside of one's head... Don't force a conversation.