Vibrator

Vibrators are lovely mechanical devices which use batteries or plug in so that they can vibrate or massage the skin. Vibrators can be enjoyed by both men and women, either by being inserted vaginally (women only) or anally, or by being pressed up against the most sensitive portions of the genitals, often the tip of the penis or the clitoris.

A FUN EXPLORATION

To do this you will need a vibrating egg. If you are out in public, use a remote controlled egg.

Cover it in a condom, add a dollop of lube, and insert it.

While at dinner, turn it on. (If dinner is in public, you will have to do a test run to make certain it can't be heard). If anyone finds out about what you are doing, you have failed... Do not involve non-consenting folks! If asked, say it's your pager, and you are NOT answering it. This doesn't work if you answer your real pager.

A way for men and sissies to play

A method of vibrator play for men, which often is mentioned by dominatrices who deal largely with sissies, being referred to as a "girlie orgasm" or something similar in these instances, is to press a vibrator running at full power against the tip of the penis.

In the case of sissies, it is suggested that the penis be held in place by tight-fitting panties or a panty girdle during play, however, all that is really necessary is that the penis be held in relatively the same position or the vibrator be held tightly against it.

Either from the beginning of stimulation, or when the individual is relatively near orgasm after a fair amount of stimulation, press the running vibrator against the most sensitive part of the penis, generally an area on the underside where the head and the shaft meet, and hold it in place for a truly different orgasm,

If the vibrator is used as the only form of stimulation from the beginning of play, please note that it is possible to over-stimulate the penis, causing temporary difficulty, or inability, to enjoy further stimulation to reach orgasm.  Also, this method can be extremely slow compared to methods of stimulation that most men are used to - namely, stroking - and can try the patience of a person trying to reach a quick orgasm.

Watching

It has occasionally been suggested to men and women who are interested in learning how to better please their female lovers, especially those men and women who feel inadequacy issues due to their partner's use of sex toys, that they watch their partner using her favorite vibrator in an effort to better understand what kind of stimulation in what areas best arouse their partner.