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What is public? What is humiliating...
This one of those things that everyone really has to work out between themselves in advance...
You also have to be VERY careful. Much public play is inappropriate because it's entirely possible that a bystander (someone who hasn't consented in advance) may be subjected to something which makes them uncomfortable... which is wrong...
Milovana Thoughts on Public Humiliation
For those involved in a power-exchange relationship, public humiliation
can come in many different forms as well as many different levels.
most subtle level often involves a form of hidden humiliation that
keeps the submissive on edge. For male submissives, this can involve
hidden [[gender play]] by having the guy wear articles of clothing
hidden from view. Stockings, panties, and a bra hidden under normal
clothes work well. Things that can also be hidden under clothes
discreetly, such as cock and ball rings, a shaved pubic region, lack of
underwear or panties, body writing, can all often make the submissive
feel self-conscious of their status while they're around others in
The next level involves a more indirect interaction with
the public world. A submissive may be asked to act and address his or
her dominant in such a way that hints to their relationship. A lack of
eye contact, following the dominant one step behind, having them order
for you, can all be seen to the submissive as cues to the world about
his or her position.
Finally, there is direct interaction. Such
things must also be planned so as to not force another person to do
something that is uncomfortable to them, or involve others that would
not want or certainly shouldn't be involved. A submissive male may be
told to purchase panties or other feminine products from a store, and
to bring it to the next level, ask a nice girl how to know if the the
panties would fit a guy. A submissive female might be told to gointo
public with a skirt and no panties, and to take it to the next level by
getting herself fitted for shoes by a guy
It is most important
to remember that the utmost care must be taken when involving others in
any form of public humiliation. The perfect situation is one in which
the submissive feels exposed while at the same time the public person
involved isn't aware of the entire situation itself.